Some men have the natural instinct of making their wives happy. They want to please her and show her that they love her. However, you must understand that pleasing your woman is not always equal to pleasing your husband. It’s important to balance your love for your wife with that love for your husband. Here are seven tips to becoming a better lover and a gentleman. Here are some tips you can follow.
9 Tips to Become a Gentleman
1) Tip No.1 – Begin to take care of yourself. No more watching television. Get some exercise and stop hanging out with the boys. Take care of your body so that your appearance will reflect positively on the women that you want to date. Be sure to eat well and sleep well, so that you look and feel great.
2) Tip No.2 – You need to understand that women take longer to become intimate. Therefore, you need to be patient. You don’t want to rush into any sexual activity right away or you’ll end up being disappointed
3) Tip No.3 – Don’t be afraid to say no. Just as you don’t want to ask a woman out on a date that she thinks is too soon, you also don’t want to give in to her every whim. This will just make her more frustrated and will turn her off. Besides, women can tell when a man is needy.
4) Tip No.4 – Know when to let go. Relationships take time to develop. Therefore, when you are together it’s okay to let things go for a while. This doesn’t mean you never talk about your feelings or that you don’t tell her how you feel.
5) Tip No.5 – Don’t buy her flowers all the time. Women don’t like to receive flowers. Instead, they like to have various other types of gifts. Don’t buy her jewelry unless she wants something else. If you do want to buy her jewelry, it’s okay to let her know.
6) Tip No.6 – Know when to accept a gift. Sometimes it may seem that you are too quick to give a gift or accept one. This may be true sometimes. However, women appreciate when they do this because it shows that they are appreciative. You want her to know that you are not quick to criticize or accept something unless it’s to her liking.
7) Tip No.7 – Don’t overdo it. Women love men that are sensitive to their needs. So if you want to impress a woman and make her happy, learn to listen.
8) Tip No.8 – Know when to shut her out. As we have said, women appreciate it when you are sensitive to their needs. So, when she starts to come around you don’t push her away. In fact, you should welcome her into your life and let her know how much you really care about her.
9) Tip No.9 – Let a lady into your life and don’t keep her away. She may want you to be a certain way. But you can’t let her know that you are only concerned with her size or other such characteristics. If you do this, she will think that you don’t care and this could lead to a breakup.
Now on to the more difficult part of how to become a real gentleman. Letting yourself go and becoming content with who you are is not a good idea. You want to be a real and complete gentleman. You want to be able to carry on in the ladies’ eyes without them thinking that you are only interested in yourself.